TY - BOOK AU - Lukas,Christopher AU - Seiden,Henry M. TI - Silent grief: living in the wake of suicide SN - 9781843108474 AV - HV6548 L954 2007 PY - 2007/// CY - London, Philadelphia PB - Jessica Kingsley Publishers KW - Suicide KW - United States KW - Bereavement KW - Psychological aspects KW - Suicide victims KW - Family relationships N1 - Introduction: Lukas's story -- What happens to the survivor after someone commits suicide -- Emotional reactions to suicide -- A family's story -- The bargain : a deal we make with life -- Bargains : the long good-bye -- Bargains : scapegoating -- Bargains : "I am guilty; I am a victim." -- Bargains : cutting off -- Bargains : a miscellany -- The saddest bargain : "because you died, I'll die." -- The grand bargain : silence -- Reactions to an adolescent's suicide -- Responding -- Giving help by listening -- Getting help by talking -- Talking with children -- Living with suicide : some stories about responding -- Epilogue: Lukas's story : a personal summary; HKBU library; YT2025 M09 ER -